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Discover: How You Can Not Only Survive But Eradicate
And Handle Domestic Violence Right At Its Core.
Hello There,
If you are experiencing domestic violence at the moment, it’s not your fault. You don’t know what’s at the core of the violent outbursts of your loved one and that is understandable.
If you are the person that is the one with the violent outbursts against your partner, there is a hidden source that triggers these outbursts and it’s not what you think.
Everything you have read or been told up to now could be a lie or false data and that is why this condition has not yet been handled. You need to find the true reason – the trigger – and disable it. It’s a bit like disabling a bomb. Once it’s disabled you could carry it around and it is now no longer a threat to you.
Whether you are causing the domestic violence or on the receiving end of domestic violence there is an overwhelming amount of emotional pain attached. At the moment you may feel alone – but take comfort in the fact you are not alone. There are thousands of people like you out there going through exactly what you are going through day in day out. Some are searching for help because they know it is not right and they want to do something about their situation.
If you want to do something about the domestic violence in your life you have come to the right place. Help is at hand. You need to be serious about curing yourself no one else can do it for you.
In case you are not sure if you are an abuser or if you are being abused read on….
Are there Different Types of Abuse?
Domestic violence has many forms and it is not always physical. The other forms of emotional abuse that can occur can hurt a person just as much as physical abuse.
Can you relate to any of the descriptions below:
• Physical Abuse: is where one spouse throws or smashes things, hits, pushes or threatens to hurt the other spouse.
• Sexual Abuse: is when one spouse makes the other spouse do sexual things that they don’t want to do. No one has the right to force someone else into a sexual act or sexual contact – even if they are married.
• Emotional abuse: is making the person feel hurt or bad – like constantly putting the other spouse down or making them feel stupid. It can include emotional blackmail, like threatening to commit suicide if their partner ves.
• Social abuse: is when one spouse stops the other from seeing their friends or family, or from having a job. It can include when one spouse constantly checks up on where the other is, or follows or stalks them.
• Financial abuse: is when one spouse takes control of the money in the household, and doesn’t let the other spouse have any money.
If you can relate to or are experiencing any of the above you are probably an abusee or and abuser.
Abuse and violence are not OK and many types of abuse are against the law. But this does not always help stop people from these actions. A person that abuses another is acting on a compulsion and this compulsion is driven by a command that just sits there in a part of your mind waiting to be triggered or activated by something.
There is only one way to find this treacherous hidden command and unless you can use the techniques that are set out in this book you will never really and truly be healed. This affliction will sit there through time endlessly just waiting to be triggered or set off.
Domestic violence and abuse affects the family as a whole. When children see one spouse treating the other badly it sets a precedent. (A precedent is an act that serves as a guide or justification for situations that follow.) Children often mimic what they see rather than to do what they are told to do. Or if a child is told not to do something his first reaction is to want to do it.
Children should have many more rights about things and more places to go. Making a child stay in a home where he is scared or his right are violated is most certainly inhibitive, not only of his happiness, but of his mental and physical development.
Children should not have to feel nervous in their own home because of the way a spouse behaves towards others or them. Children have a right to feel safe in their own home.
Most parents want the best for their children but when their own lives get out of control they can run short on answers for themselves and their loved ones. If you are a spouse as well as a mother or father you owe it not only to yourself but to your offspring to take this next step as it will affect your whole family.
Are you at the receiving end of abuse?
Are you dishing out abuse to a loved one? Don’t despair something can be done about your situation.
Just To Clarify There IS a Difference Between An Argument & Abuse?
There is a difference between arguments and abuse. This must not be confused. Both spouses in a relationship might disagree about something or argue their point of view, in a relationship that isn’t abusive both parties are free to say what they truly think.
Abuse or domestic violence is when one spouse bullies the other spouse or frightens them so much that they don’t feel like they can say or do what they want to. In many instances it’s the male spouse who is abusive. The guy may have some idea in his head that he has the right to be the boss to be in charge and dominate the woman. This is not right – both spouses should treat each other as equals in the relationship.
There must come a time when you decide that enough is enough. There has to eventually be an end to all your suffering. If you are at that point, you need to buy Dianetics: The Modern Science Of Mental Health and read it now. See exactly how your mind is put together and why this is the only real answer to ending domestic violence once and for all. Dianetics is a book that has changed millions of people’s lives – Dianetics is a science that breaks the mind down into two separate understandable parts – the Analytical Mind and the Reactive Mind.
The Reactive Mind is the part that is responsible for all the pain and suffering and agonizing that goes on within you. The Analytical Mind is that rational part of you that analyses and resolves problems.
All the negative or non-survival thoughts you have are contained in a reservoir of data which serves the reactive mind. No human being examined anywhere was discovered to be without one.
The procedures you can learn in Dianetics are there so you can do something about the torment in your life. It is a permanent solution. After Dianetics procedures you will feel more like yourself again. You will have a sense of freedom you have possibly never ever experienced.
All it requires is the application of the techniques in this book. Dianetics explains how the reactive mind collects emotional baggage and how it uses that baggage and sabotages your future efforts.
If there was ever a devil, he designed the reactive mind.
It is the reactive mind which makes you put yourself down and suppress your dreams, which makes you hang onto your apathies, which gives you irresolution when you should act, and kills you before you have begun to live . . .
The reactive mind is a stimulus response mechanism and its actions are destructive.
You will have seen it’s effects if you are on the causing or receiving end of domestic violence.
When your reactive mind is switched off your thoughts and actions are creative and you will be being the person you are proud of and want to be.
Get rid of the reservoir of data in the reactive mind and your fears and compulsions and destructive urges concerning destruction towards relationships and your partner disappear. And not only that – your arthritis vanishes, heart illness decreases, asthma disappears, stomachs function properly and your whole catalogue of illnesses go away and stay away. What a bonus?
These are scientific facts and have been observed by many.
By reading Dianetics you will learn how to deactivate or detach your reactive mind. When you detach this hopeless, apathetic and destructive portion of your mind your personality and vigor intensify.
Using the techniques outlined in ‘Dianetics the Modern Science Of Mental Health’ helps you be yourself. These techniques remove the stimulus response mechanisms lurking in the shadows of your reactive mind which are waiting to be activated like tripwires to destroy everything you are trying to create, especially in your relationships.
Understand Yourself and How Your Mind Works – Read Dianetics today….
Dianetics will provide you with the information that you need to help you understand why you are feeling the way you do. Where do your destructive actions stem from? Can they be removed?
Dianetics will show you how to erase the pieces of data that cause the destructive behaviour people act out and cause untold upset and grief, pain and suffering, in fact any negative or detrimental feelings a person may have.
If you feel like your life is crashing down around you? You are not alone! But, having said that, you do not need to feel like that.
Negative emotions in past incidents feed and drive your reactive mind to cause all its detrimental and destructive effects in the present.
These Dianetics techniques have worked on thousands upon thousands of people just like yourself and from the success stories this unique technique not only helps end domestic violence in your life but improves other areas of your life as well.
Being overwhelmed by domestic violence can be like a living night mare, but even worse is wondering what you can do to handle your emotional roller coaster ride day after day. Buy Dianetics and start reading it today. Use your time productively to handle your enemy – the reactive mind.
Every Failed Relationship, Each Episode of Domestic Violence Has Its Own Unique Storyline. In The End, We All Hurt From Emotional Upheaval Of our Daily Lives While Our Reactive Minds Are In Full Swing.
While each person’s story is unique the thing they all have in common in the heartbreak connected to domestic violence is connected to their reactive mind.
When your reactive mind is not switched on or detached, you are using your analytical mind. It is very rational and creative. It helps you resolve problems and create beautiful and amazing things. You will be the person you have always wanted to be. You will be freed from the detrimental effects of your reactive mind once and for all.
I know this probably sounds impossible but by using the techniques that are carefully laid out in this book you will reach this stage. Without your reactive mind you will no longer be dependent on another for your happiness. You will be more capable and more able to achieve whatever you want in life and YES you can have the relationship that dreams are made of.
Buy Dianetics and get started on one on the biggest adventures of self-discovery that you can today!
DIANETICS: The Modern Science of Mental Health by L. Ron Hubbard
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